​UNCONDITIONAL LOVE!!!

Hi, I am yash, I’m back with another blog that I thought was worth writing.
If you thought that I would write something about love, it definitely is not, meaning any Wife & Husband, Girlfriend & Boyfriend relationships as I did not get to experience any of those (honestly speaking), but it is about our family; mainly Amma & Bapuji.

Well, what to say, the first thing they did was to give me birth. Well, obviously, that’s why I’m here right. They also taught me how to walk & stuff. Well, you might be thinking that’s casual stuff right, that’s every parents’ responsibility. No, I don’t think so, if it was the case we wouldn’t be here in the first place. Not only that, they also are the best people who give the best advice & are the only people who are the only true well-wishers for you, they don’t expect anything but good from us. They only want that we prosper in our lives and want only good for us. They give us the best of the best, what they didn’t have, we on the other hand just want more from them. They also work hard to give the best amenities. We usually overlook the hardships they take just to bring a small smile on our faces. We would ask for more, they would ask for more time, but we would be adamant on it. We just look at the thing, but the overall effort-comes from them. They do all the world they can do for the best for us. We, on the other hand, just break their heart in the best form possible.

I got to know this when we came to another country, the trouble the whole family had, and also the way my dad’s whole situation was – portrayal of his way of responsibility. He also showed how to be calm in tacky situations, and keep his cool when we were sooo worried about how things would even work out. He also showed how to tackle situations with precision and perfection. (He is a perfectionist in everything he does).

So, a lot of things come from him, like life lessons. They also boost confidence when you are on a low in your life. Parents always help you with stuff that you can’t help your own self. According to me, a person goes through the following three stages:

Where he is completely oblivious to the facts of life.

Where he learns stuff and rectifies his mistakes.

Where he tries not to do them & also preaches his near and dear ones not to.

Parents go through all these stages, and also want us not to go through all these. They also rectify us physically & also through scoldings; we might take this in a wrong way. But, think of this in this way, why would a person rectify you when he has nothing to do with you when he does not care about you, he does not give a damn about you or care for you. So, care for them when they are doing the same for you without expecting anything from you. They are the people who know everything about you (Nas Nas se vakif hote hai). Plus, they also know what you are up to, like really they know you, they observe you when you think you are in the best hiding, plus they don’t even say what they need, this or that, and also they are smart with the experience and they sometimes manage to manipulate us into their decisions. It looks wrong, trust me, it does, but they usually are right and believe me it saves you from greater vice of the world. It is great to have this kind of unconditional love and support of your parents, and this is something that only khusnaseeb people get man, some people take it very leniently, but it is something that really makes huge impact on anyone’s life, and for me them as my guiding stars is fortune of a kind for which I thank god or any alien who does this.

Until then, this is Yash and see you in the next one……..

AND, THANK YOU BAPUJI & AMMA FOR EVERYTHING.